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Wednesday, May 7, 2008

Memories, Just Memories.

i was reading sylvia's blog today. and i felt so passionate about what she said. this is why i'm not gonna be talking about myself and my boring day. i took this from her blog:

"Anyway, talking about secondary school friends. During the O levels/posting results we all used to hang out a lot. Chalets, bbqs, movie marathon & all. It's pretty scary how much we don't talk to each other anymore. Okay, more like me me me me me me & other people. I do envy those in NP cause they get to see each other & still hang out & everything."

i strongly agree with her. it used to be meetings every few days. i mean, from that, to this. whereby we havent even seen each other in forever! we might not be best-est of friends, but we still are, friends. think about it, what is YOUR definition of a friend? sylvia! i really miss the times we hung out with the whole bunch. Cecelia, you too! i havent heard from you in ages.

there always are friends that would look back and see what they left behind. like Sylvia, they would try to arrange a meeting or promise one. Zhengyan and Cheryl Teo are others. And there are some whom would just move on with life, as if the chapter where we were in ended, and its a new chapter now. No names mentioned. Its not Cecelia. there are those who are the epitome of what i am talking about.

NP is a place where yes, many Queenswayans did go to. This may be true. but everyone moves on, gets to know new friends. we never stick together for LIFE. take note, i'm not making a sweeping statement. some of us may be in the same classes. this is far and few. people move on, and good friends become mere acquaintances overnight. not surprising. friends dont owe us their life, sealed with a vow and a certificate, unlike a marriage. Sad as it is, this is reality.

SYLVIA! i still hope to see you soon. i've not forgotten you! ha. right. and tomorrow is 4 hours of Business Management and then Ambassadors Interview and dental. (: i'll leave you with a picture of me. no, not emo, as many say. (: oh. i watched Over Her Dead Body. its the same plot as Blithe Spirit. NICE! absolutely LOOOOVE Eva Longoria Parker. striked it out cuz i dont like her husband. lol

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